what the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't grieve over

I don't remember exactly when, but one Sunday recently, I decided to go to Church to attend mass. After some time, I realized that I was in the wrong church - it was a Protestant Church.

I was about to leave, but when the vicar was just beginning his sermon, and I thought it would be rude to get up at this point, and it was a real blessing, because that day I heard things I very much needed to hear.

He said something like:

In all the languages of the world, there is the same proverb: "What the eyes don't see, the heart doesn't grieve over." Well, I say that there isn't an ounce of truth in it. The further off they are, the closer to the heart are all those feelings that we try to repress and forget. If we're in exile, we want to store away every tiny memory of our roots. If we're far from the person we love, everyone we pass in the streets reminds us of them.

"The gospels and all the sacred texts of all religions were written in exile, in search of God's understanding, of the faith that moves whole peoples, of the pilgrimage of souls wandering the face of the Earth. Our ancestors did not know, as we did not know, what the Divinity expects from our lives - and it is out of that doubt that books are written, pictures painted, because we don't want to forget who we are - nor can we."At the end of the service, I went up to him and thanked him: I said that I was a stranger in a strange land, and I thanked him for reminding me that what the eyes don't see, the heart does grieve over.

- Paulo Coelho's Eleven Minutes
(taken from Alistair Israel's Journal /MULTIPLY.COM)